Almost every relationship I have been in with the exception of one have been with non pagan people. Though they didn't follow it they were supportive with and had in interest with figuring out what the hell i was doing, especially when i would do skyclad rituals....... lol, couldn't figure out why the hell I would walk around a table a few times and just stand there nekkid. It would be nice to be in a relationship where the other person is pagan, as Wulfnor said, its a big part of my life and something I would love to share with the person i share my life with. Did i love them less because they weren't pagan, no. But Given the chance, next person I get with will be.
i have dated a non pagan, a matter of fact i was married to a luthern woman for 4 years lol.. it all depends on their capability to comprehend and respect your belif structure thats all it comes down to ... well that and love.
if you really love the person it should never matter what they belive in, it should only matter that you love the person and that is it.. the disscussion of being with somone who is not pagan is just silly, its like asking if you could love somone that was not your skin color or of the same decent as you.
Mixing it up a bit is what makes love grow, if you both are exactly the same in everything life will be drab and boring. My ex wife and i did not see eye to eye. however she was very cerious about my faith and did ask questions .. alot of questions.. but i was more than happy to explain it to her.
if you take the time to walk them through and make them understand your views.. it will not be as hard and you will be able to get through anything.
Been there... did that... bought a t-shirt and burned it. I'd say 99% of my dates were non-pagan, and now I'm swearing off all of them. I now avoid dating anyone who is Christian all together. I got tired of people trying to convert/save me. I liked them, but they didn't seem to be able to get over the God thing.
Yes, I was married for 14 years to a non pagan/Wiccan and if I ever fall in love again..so be it...MY religious beliefs are mine. as long as it doesnt harm another...PS. religion is not why we divorced..he THOUGHT he fell in love for a "cyber vixion" go figure LOL
i would never not date someone because they weren't, as long as they respected my beliefs. i have run into the whole "how do i explain my religion" thing before, which is why i joined this site.